Tuesday, September 17, 2024

6 Interesting Books to Read in Your 20s.


  1. The art of dealing with people

  2. Sapiens

  3. Pride and prejudice

  4. Godaan

  5. Kafka off the shore

  6. Steal like an artist



The art of dealing with people - Les Giblin 


Les Giblin wrote this book. This book is concise and precise; it has only 68 pages with 11 chapters. I recommend this book to almost every person. This is not like other self-help books. It’s like a mirror; it reflects our nature, behaviour, and problems we all face in our 20s. 


This book offers practical wisdom on how to communicate and build connections effectively. It helps us develop skills that are important for our personal and professional lives. 

The book helps young adults understand the importance of empathy, active listening, and positive interaction, fostering emotional intelligence. Reading this at 20 provides tools to handle conflicts, influence others positively, and enhance leadership abilities—key elements that can lay the foundation for a successful future.



Sapiens - Yuval Noah Harari 


Sapiens: A Brief History of Humankind offers a significant, thought-provoking examination of how humans evolved and how our species built the modern world, making it a must-read for anybody over twenty. Sapiens gives an engaging look into the evolution of culture, politics, religion, economics, and science at a time when interest in identity, society, and the future is growing. It challenges traditional thinking and deepens one's understanding of the connections between historical occurrences and the actions of humans that have shaped the complexity of modern society. This book encourages curiosity, critical thinking, and reflection on humanity's shared past and future potential in young adults figuring out their role in the world.


Pride and Prejudice - Jane Austen 


Jane Austen's Pride and Prejudice is a timeless read because, at twenty, you're managing relationships, self-discovery, and societal expectations. Through Elizabeth Bennet, who challenges social conventions with her wit and intelligence, the story addresses topics of individualism, class, and love. As a young adult, you can identify with Elizabeth's self-discovery journey and her learning how to maintain a balance between your wants and the expectations of society. The story focuses light on human nature by emphasizing the complex nature of pride, prejudice, and first impressions in interpersonal relationships. Austen is still relevant today because of her insightful critiques on gender norms and socioeconomic class, which makes it a worthwhile read for anybody exploring their identity. Also, the book gives an original view of love that relies on respect and understanding rather than impatience or superficiality. This novel viewpoint on love can influence your ideas about relationships and personal development at this critical age.



Godaan -  Munshi Premchand 


At 20, reading Munshi Premchand's *Godaan* provides a deep understanding of the human condition, making it a must-read. The book explores into the challenges experienced by those living in rural India, portraying the harsh reality of poverty, societal injustice, and personal ethical dilemmas. You're still forming your worldview at this age, and *Godaan* offers a lens to see the minute details of interpersonal interactions, empathy, and societal issues. Characters like Hori, who wants nothing more from life than to have a cow, are portrayed by Premchand in a way that speaks to the essential human longing for fulfilment and dignity. This classic story invites young readers to consider their goals and potential life sacrifices. 


Additionally, it helps readers understand the socioeconomic challenges faced by the marginalized and encourages them to adopt a sympathetic perspective, which is crucial for young adults who are transitioning into adulthood and establishing their social roles.



Kafka off the shore - Haruki Murakami 


Reading Kafka on the Shore by Haruki Murakami at age 20 can change people. The book goes into identity, self-discovery, and the complex nature of human relationships, themes that deeply speak to young adults who are just starting their twenties. Murakami's strange world combines reality, metaphysical ideas, and dreams, challenging readers to think about how they view life. The novel's themes of fate, free will, and the search for purpose can be particularly relevant to 20-year-olds, as they struggle with making decisions in life and figuring out who they are in the world. The questions of philosophy and the emotional journeys of the characters act as mirrors, reflecting the inner unrest and doubts that accompany growing up.


A person going through a turning point in their life may find great wisdom in Kafka on the Shore, as it encourages readers to welcome uncertainty and the unknown.



Steal like an Artist - Austin Kleon 


When a person reaches twenty, they often find themselves at a crossroads, looking for inspiration and guidance. For young minds navigating this transitional age, Austin Kleon's book Steal Like an Artist gives useful advice. It highlights that being creative is about broadening upon, remixing, and evolving existing concepts rather than inventing anything from scratch. This book serves as an empowering reminder to a twentysomething that creativity arises from combining one's viewpoint with the ideas and inspiration of others. It promotes taking risks, being curious, and picking up tips from mentors, even if indirectly. Kleon is ideal for a young adult who is ready to accept teamwork, reject the idea of the "solitary genius," and develop their creative potential. This is due to his friendly and inspirational attitude.

This book helps young readers concentrate on establishing their voice while laying a solid foundation for creative work in an era of information overload.



Saturday, September 14, 2024

HimadriInHimalayas

A brief about Himachal's Manali tour.

Hello readers, Recently, I have been to Himachal Pradesh with my parents. We went on a road trip and covered multiple tourist spots in the state.

The trip included Manali, Sissu, LaholSpiti, Rohtang, and a few more villages. 

We stayed 4 nights in Manali at Hotel Namaste Inn; the hotel was near Beas Valley, a few kilometres away from the main Manali city. The place was so peaceful and beautiful; the river flowed just before our balcony. 

The rent was 2900/- per night, which was perfect according to location and vibes. 

Initially, in conversation with the hotel staff, we were informed that they would provide us with vegetarian food, but after further conversation, they denied it. 

As we are Jains, we require vegetarian food, so in search of that, we went near Mall Road. There we found very few pure vegetarian restaurants. We had our dinner on the first day; they then suggested a place near our hotel named ‘Uncle’s Food Garage.’ Here we found jain food also, but it was very costly. However, something is better than nothing.


Places to visit

  1. Hidimba Devi Temple 

  2. Mall road

  3. Vyas kund 

  4. Local Market fair

  5. Beas river

 And many more local spots.


Manali’s Mall Road is perfect for shopping and eating, especially during the night. On the street, you will find my attractions like artists showing their talent, and sweet stalls. The market is very lively, they sell mostly handmade products, and people are very kind. 

Paragliding and hot air balloon rides are also major attractions near Beas Valley among youngsters. 

Near Hidimba Devi temple we did a photo shoot in traditional clothes of Himachal. 

Manali is an amazing place to visit with your family and friends but make an initial booking if you are going to visit from May to August because that's peak season and it is difficult to find the places to stay. 

From Manali one can book a local taxi to visit nearby places and towns. We went in our car.

One early morning we visited Rohtang Pass which was partially open. We saw the sunrise from there, the experience was surreal, and the place was fully covered with snow.

For the Rohtang pass, we need to do 3 days before booking from the government of Himachal’s website. 

We did our bookings through MakeMyTrip. 

The trip was amazing and forever memorable.


-Himi


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